Work towards making `suricata-common.h` only introduce system headers
and other things that are independent of complex internal Suricata
data structures.
Update files to compile after this.
Remove special DPDK handling for strlcpy and strlcat, as this caused
many compilation failures w/o including DPDK headers for all files.
Remove packet macros from decode.h and move them into their own file,
turn them into functions and rename them to match our function naming
policy.